Your Amazing.

Have i told you lately just how wonderful you are mama?

Archie had never really been a 'hard baby'. He was so laid back and chilled. Don't get me wrong I had sleepless nights and days where he wouldn't stop crying but as a whole genuinely he was pretty calm and most days i felt I had my s#@t together. Until the constipation started, oh sweet Lord, my calm baby turned into a crazed demon..it may have only been for 3 weeks so I should have felt I got off lightly with it, but at the time I felt far from being lucky, the constant screaming and crying seemed to go on forever. I remember sitting in the doctors room, tears rolling down my face feeling like the worst mum in the world for not knowing how to help my baby. It was that day the Dr looked at me, touched my hand and said something that stuck with me ever since. Speaking as a mum she said "you've got this, your doing amazing, never think your failing your child, your fantastic" 
Yes I sobbed even more in that moment simply because I felt someone understood, someone could see I was doing my absolute best..... so right now I want to pay that forward to another mama who maybe sat at home feeling just how I felt.

Being a mummy can feel so incredibly lonely, sometimes you want someone to recognise your efforts and to just tell you your great. Your unstoppable.  Your superwoman.

So here is me paying it forward.

Who cares if it really don't look like you got it all together, someone somewhere is admiring you and your ways.

Mama your perfect, never let anyone dull your sparkle, your kids love you more than you'll ever know, you are their everything. It may not feel like it but your doing a brilliant job. You are superwoman... And you really HAVE got this.